The way I see myself is, I hope, different than the way that others view me. For the past few months, I have not been quite sure who I am. Because in May, I broke off every little piece of me and now, I’m rebuilding with stronger parts. I’m lost and looking for a little guidance from my heart, who doesn’t always lead me in the right places.

Some times I get angry. I get frustrated over insults disguised as comments. I get mad at lack of communication. I get mad when I’m all alone. I’ll sit on my bed and wallow inside but all I want to do is get up and punch a wall a couple of times. As if a broken hand would make me less angry.

But mostly, I’m sad. I’m sad that I feel as if no change is occurring. I’m sad when I end up sitting in my room at night, alone. I’m sad when I’m surrounded by negative energy. And some times, I can’t explain why I’m sad, I just am.

Living inside of my head makes me not believe things. I don’t understand how people think or talk highly of me, I don’t get how my boyfriend loves me the way he does, and I’m unsure how my friends stick around in my life actually curious to how I’m doing. It makes things incredibly hard.

Do they actually know me? I’ll wonder. Maybe if they saw inside of my head they’d think differently. I’ll believe. Because I see someone who tries and fails, someone who tries to comfort people and says the wrong thing, someone who attempts to help and makes things worse, I see a fat ugly version of a girl in my reflection, I don’t think my level of intelligence is considered smart just fortunate enough to know what’s going on, and I see an enemy inside. It’s almost as if there is a mask that I’m wearing for the public, that when I’m within the safety of my own home, I take it off and reveal the real me.

Now, I know all of those awful things about me aren’t true, and I know this because I’ve listened to the people who love me in life tell me otherwise. It’s like I’m wearing distorted glasses when I look at me, distorted glasses that only see the negative. It’s taken me a while, but I’ve begun to view myself in other people’s eyes.

I’m a work in progress and I can only hope that things go up from here. But I’m going to get angry and want to break things, I’ll get sad and want to cry sometimes, I’ll yell when it’s uncalled for, I’ll apologize when I need too, and I’ll keep going until the way I see myself is the way that I truly am.

I’ve been in this rut lately. A rut where I have the strong urge to write, but no inspiration comes. Every night, around 10:30 pm, I open my laptop, go to my blog, create a new post….. and blankly stare at it, write, and then soon erase everything I manage to type up.

Honestly, I’m tired. I am caught up in an endless loop of a daily routine my body has created alone. Every morning my alarm goes off at seven….then another at seven twenty, I drag my feet out of bed by seven twenty-five, I religiously forget to eat breakfast, stuff leftovers in my purse for lunch, grab my water bottle that’s had the same water in it for two days, and shuffle myself to work until five o’clock.

After five, I drive myself home, curse at Portsmouth traffic and people who don’t understand merge signs, make myself something easy for dinner, shower all of the filth off of me from the day, attempt to relax on the couch for an hour or so, fall asleep, wake up and attempt to be productive in housework or socialization with my boyfriend or family, stare at my computer screen and yell at my brain for not making beautiful words on paper, and eventually fall asleep to the sounds of Luna snoring and Friends playing in the background.

Unfortunately, every day is proving to be the same. The same struggles, frustrations, arguments, and thoughts constantly circling my head. All I want to do is scream, “STOP!” and curl into a cocoon of comfort. Because everything shouldn’t be this hard, should it? So why am I making it this hard?

It seems that I forgot the reason that I first started to blog…I enjoy writing. Whether it be about my day, a poem, a short story, or even an inspirational piece using metaphors to compare to what I feel- writing heals me, it soothes me, and I’ve become too concerned with, “Well, who’s listening?”, when my ultimate goal was getting what I have to say – just, out.

For now, my insiration strikes every few days or, if I’m lucky, four times a week where I can comfortably sit down and say, “This is the message I want to put across.” and do it. Until then, enjoy my day to day posts about nothing special going on in my life. The only way out of a rut is to face it head on, so here I go.

My biggest problem is that I allow myself to live inside of my head. Dragging myself down, making myself miserable over nothing.

And the worst part is people feel sympathy for me, asking me what’s wrong until I have allowed them inside of my head. And that’s why people leave. They cannot take the storms that I create. And I can’t blame them.

Because I spend the majority of my time attempting to convince myself that the Logan inside of my head is not the Logan in real life.

I want to believe that I’m a beautiful young lady, whose thoughtful and caring, takes cares of her loved ones, has a big, kind heart and shares it often, is funny and loved by many. But most of all, I want to believe that I make a difference in people’s lives, in a positive and warming way.

Yet, my thoughts will not let me live that way.

Despite the constant ragging storm inside of my head, I go about my day doing anything that I can for other people and I always try to do the right thing, even when it goes against the grain.

I’m learning to take care of myself, I just hope one day I’ll fall in love with myself all over again.

I can see in their eyes that they’re worried, but there is nothing I could say to dismiss their fears. Not when my own mind carries the same concerns.

I hear it in their voice when they call my name out and my mind is too far away. I see it in their eyes when they search my face for some form of emotion. I feel it when they rub my back in attempt to make me feel better.

But I’m vacant. I’m lost somewhere between where my brain produces thoughts and where my mouth tries to form words.

And when I’ve fallen back on silence I can hear Dr. Edgar’s words, “who do you live for, if not yourself?”

And I repeat those names.

Over and over.

And there’s that feeling again sinking into my bones, something is wrong. Static runs through my nerves keeping me up at night, zapping me with new found fears, reminding me of old ones, and I curl underneath my blanket for safety. I will not move until my fears have subsided.

Leaving, I’ve never liked the term, it never suggests returning. Even if it was a promise, it cannot be guaranteed. It’s a chance you’re taking and not many people think about it like I do.

My safe place is here, under a pile of blankets, wrapped up with you on a cold night, listening to the gentle snores emitting from your sleeping body, and our favorite tv show in the back ground. It’s hard to leave that idea inside of my head.

It’s crippling to be so far out of reach, it makes me want to hide within myself. To try and keep my anxiety and depression contained, as if it will reflect harm on those close to me. I’ll have no escape, 600 miles away from comfort and no covers to hide under.

Home was never a place to me, it’s a feeling.

I never expected rock bottom to hurt this much, honestly I thought it would have killed me, but here I am still standing with borrowed legs. I tried to push people away from me and I ended up falling down, thinking it was the end, the end of all ends.

And I’m happy to see how wrong I was. I may have jumped from a cliff, but I did not jump alone. The people who truly loved me were with me all along, they didn’t dare leave me when I yelled at them to do so.

I lost my way, I was following the shadows on the ground until I stumbled into darkness. I wasn’t listening to where my feet wanted to go, or where my heart told me home was.

I still don’t know where I am going, but I know that I am on the right path.